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Spending time with oneself in University

College life can be lonely when you don't have friends to hang out with. Often you feel the urge to have friends that you may even change yourself. However, changing oneself is not healthy, and if someone cannot accept you the way you are, then that friendship won't last long either. Over time, it's essential to create your routine, your comfort space, and engage in activities that you like the most. Spending time alone in college can be lonely, but it's also a time to get to know yourself more than you ever had before.

Published:April 17, 2023 at 01:12 AM2 min read

Spending time with oneself in University

By Aakriti Ghai

There are days when one just wants to go out and be around people whereas, there are few days when one just wants to stay in their own bubble. Some days just pass by easy, while some are just overwhelming. When college starts nobody tells you how lonely it can get when you do not have friends to hang out with or just be around sometimes. It all starts with a fantasy and becomes a tough road when the reality knocks on the door.

The constant urge to have friends sometimes even makes you change yourself, having that what if it works thought behind it. But honestly, changing oneself is not a positive nor a healthy thing to, if someone cannot accept you the way you are then that friendship will not last long either. Overtime, going through various experiences, with knowing how to be with yourself more than ever, there are little things which you start finding comfort in. One start creating, its own routine, its own comfort space, and activities which one wants to do in your own time. Sometimes just little hobbies become your best friend. Yes, there are days when all one does is question a lot of things and feel left out but More so there are days when one just enjoys even making that hot cup of coffee. Spending time alone in college can be secluded and lonely but it is also the time when you get to know yourself in a manner one might have never done It before.